Java Remove the message when you delete a friend.

[Cyllix]

Hello, i think that this can be something like privacity because sometimes you want to remove a friend but without he noticing so.
My suggestion is:

Currently, when you delete a friend he can see the message "X person as remove you from his friend list!" i suggest remove this because i find like it should be something private, also in that way maybe we cant hurt the guy with that message (just like facebook does, if you delete somebody from friends he will not notice it)

And also, similar to this, i suggest remove the message when you denie a friend request because again, it can hurt the guy or it can be annoying because the guy could ask you all the time "why you denied".

 

[Eli]

Hello, i think that this can be something like privacity because sometimes you want to remove a friend but without he noticing so.
My suggestion is:

Currently, when you delete a friend he can see the message "X person as remove you from his friend list!" i suggest remove this because i find like it should be something private, also in that way maybe we cant hurt the guy with that message (just like facebook does, if you delete somebody from friends he will not notice it)

And also, similar to this, i suggest remove the message when you denie a friend request because again, it can hurt the guy or it can be annoying because the guy could ask you all the time "why you denied".

No, would cause confusion and some people wouldn’t be able to keep up with who is in their friend list and who isn’t.
If you don’t want them to find out just remove them when they’re offline.

 

[Starry]

This should be added in my opinion, it could prevent many arguments.

 

[Fedde2001]

I did vote yes because I would be fine with it, but like @Elivat said, for now and actually for Always I would be okay with removing a friend while he/she is offline.

 

[Komodо]

I think it shouldn’t be removed, I think you should have a setting where you can either switch it on or off

 

[Elenahh]

I don't support the second suggestion because spamming friend/party requests is against the rules, and when there is a message saying that someone has denied your request, it will serve as a warning for you not to continue sending that request. Not only do I think the message should remain, but I also think the same message should be added for party invites.

There's an easy solution to that issue - don't remove friends/decline requests if the player is online, and don't take the rejections so personally. Now, I understand that not everyone would react this way, and it is a lot easier said than done, but I think the "X has denied your request" messages should remain due to the trolling rule being a thing. Though, I'm alright with removing the message that appears in your chat when someone removes you from their list.

 

[Sulphate]

I agree with removing the 'X removed you' message - it's not particularly necessary to announce to the other player that this has happened, as with most/all other systems where you have friends - this is not made public/known to the other person. However the 'X declined your invite' message(s) should stay, in my opinion. Otherwise you don't know if they accepted you or just ignored it! (Personally I'd rather know if someone declined it)

So +1 to the first, nope to the second :)

 

[Raam]

I voted Yes, because a little bit the same reason as @Fedde2001 sayed.

 

[RickDeKlomp]

I don't think this is a good idea. You don't remove someone from your friendlist without a reason. If he askes you why you removed him, simply tell him that reason. If you remove the message it will not only be chaotic, but in my opinion also a bit sneaky.

 

[Expectational]

This is something that I feel would normally be added as a notification setting for the player receiving the message, but instead, this is overall. I agree with lots of other people that have commented saying that it would cause confusion and when weighing it up, I also believe this. To add on to this, I feel that it's very rare that people would get sad because they have been removed from a friends list. Maybe they may get annoyed, as they have not been notified that they have been removed, and instead, they have just been ghosted by them.

 

[CraftCreatures]

I always remove friends when they are offline (99% off my friends are always offline :() but good suggestion.

 

[Aosm]

Just remove your friend when he's offline (:

 

[Andyyy]

It helps when one of your friends purges their friends list so you can re-add them easily.

 

[Raam]

Just remove your friend when he's offline :)

Just this ^^^^^^^^^^^^

 

[Lime]

Just remove your friend when he's offline :)

It's as simple as this. ;)
No need to remove the message.